Dakota Gardener: Finding love in a corn field

How do you find the love of your life?

When I lived in Taiwan, a friend told me that finding a spouse is just like picking an ear of corn in a corn field.

You enter the corn field and start walking down a row. There are lots of corn cobs to choose from, but you can select only one.

You can look at the corn cobs, but you cannot open the husks of the cob and reveal its beauty. That must wait until a...